Not to be heard of
As a Chinese idiom, Pinyin is g ò ur ú B ù w é n, which means to be insulted but not heard. It is silent and describes magnanimity and self-restraint.
Analysis of Idioms
Synonym: magnanimous antonym: small bellied chicken intestine
Idiom usage
He has a lot of self-restraint that he has been criticized for.
Idiom story
During the period of emperor Renzong of Song Dynasty, Fubi, a native of Henan Province, was very popular. When he was insulted by others, he didn't seem to hear it. Others told him that he was scolded by name. He said that there were many people with the same name and surname, and others would not scold him. When negotiating with Khitan, Fu Bi, who was always magnanimous, resolutely refused Khitan's rude request.
Not to be heard of
seek life in the midst of death - sǐ zhōng qiú shēng
each trying to cheat or outwit the other - ěr yú wǒ zhà
so that there is no end [ of our toils - mí suǒ dǐ zhǐ