Be gracious
Sweet words and generous gifts, Chinese idiom, Pinyin is g ā NY á NH ò UL ǐ, meaning sweet words, heavy gifts. It comes from the biography of Gongsun in the annals of the Three Kingdoms.
The origin of Idioms
In the annals of the Three Kingdoms, Wei annals, biography of Gongsun Du, it is said that "I have been beheaded and sent to the head of Miyan." Pei Songzhi quoted Wei Lue as a note: "before the minister, he sent Su Shu, the school captain, and the doctor ordered Sun Zong to be gracious in order to lure the Wu thieves."
Idiom usage
As subject, object, attribute; used in communication
Analysis of Idioms
Synonym: sweet words and thick coins
Be gracious
with bright windows and clean tables - chuāng míng jī jìng
share the feelings and sentiments - hū xī xiāng tōng