Virtuous words and good looks
Chinese idiom, Pinyin is d é y á ng ō NgR ó ng, which means that women should have the moral character required by feudal ethics. It comes from the book of rites.
The origin of Idioms
The language comes from the book of rites. See "virtuous speech and Rong Gong".
Idiom usage
At that time, what my aunt taught you was of great use. The first act of five Zhaojun by Cao Yu
Virtuous words and good looks
one's resource is in difficulties - wù lì wéi jiān
heaped up earth becomes a mountain - tǔ rǎng xì liú