Be in charge of one's own affairs
As a Chinese idiom, Pinyin is d ā ngji ā L ì sh ì, which means to be in charge of family affairs. From a dream of Red Mansions.
The origin of Idioms
The third chapter of Cao Xueqin's a dream of Red Mansions in the Qing Dynasty: "piansheng Qingwen came up to change her clothes, but she lost her fan and fell to the ground, breaking her shares. Baoyu sighed: "fool, fool! What's the future like? Tomorrow, when you are in charge of your own affairs, do you care so much about the future? "
Idiom usage
If you don't run your own business, you don't know how hard it is to be a man.
Be in charge of one's own affairs
willing to die a martyr to one 's just cause - bù wàng gōu hè