be neither humble nor pushy
Neither humble nor haughty is a Chinese idiom, Pinyin for B ù B ē IB ú K à ng, which describes that people speak and act appropriately. It's from the nineteen books on answering the questions of xiaozhaisheng.
Idiom usage
Although Lao Zhang was in a hurry, the support of long Shugu made him unable to attack. Lao She's philosophy of Lao Zhang
The origin of Idioms
Zhu Zhiyu of the Ming Dynasty wrote nineteen shunshu to xiaozhaisheng: "sages have their own right way. They should not be arrogant or arrogant. How can they be so?"
be neither humble nor pushy
join together in practising fraud - tōng tóng zuò bì
there is too much detail in one 's speech - xiē xiē zhē zhē
become intimate at the first meeting - qīng gài rú gù