It's against one's will to avoid others
Chinese idiom, Pinyin is B ì J ì w é IX ī n, which means hiding against the original meaning. From the answer to Zhang kaofu's book.
The origin of Idioms
Chen Que's answer to Zhang kaofu in the Qing Dynasty: "he is the Duke of Jing and not the Duke of Jing, and he can't escape from later generations. He dares not to evade and disobey his heart, so as to bear the meaning of the elder brother's instruction."
Idiom usage
To live in seclusion against one's will.
It's against one's will to avoid others
No one knows a son better than his father. - zhī zǐ mò ruò fù