Love wants to live, evil wants to die

Love wants to live, evil wants to die

Love the house and love the dog is the best annotation of "love wants to live, evil wants to die". Everyone is prone to this problem. Even if you can pay attention, there will always be problems when you don't pay attention to them. Cronyism is a common fault of leaders. Love, every possible promotion, hate, a stick to death. Love hate interweaving is a common problem between lovers. Love, even shortcomings are so charming, hate, the more he treats you, the more you hate. Husband and wife, too.

interpretation

Love him, always want to call him alive; hate him, always want to call him dead. To treat others with extreme personal love and hatred.

source

Yan Yuan, Analects of Confucius: "love wants to live and evil wants to die. It's perplexing to want both life and death."

Examples

"Love wants to live, evil wants to die." Why can't you be a eunuch? (Chapter 115 of romance of the Three Kingdoms by Luo Guanzhong in Ming Dynasty)

enlightenment

Love the house and love the dog is the best annotation of "love wants to live, evil wants to die". Confucius said, "it is perplexing to wish for both life and death." This is a kind of contradictory psychology that human beings often have. The key is how we can control this kind of psychology in our life. In love, not delicate, not indulgent, not for the future of hate buried hidden trouble. this kind of problem is inevitable even for teachers. When dealing with students, excellent students always take care of them. They are afraid of any problems. Even if they make any mistakes, it is always easy to win understanding. And once you are no longer in favor of it for some reason, you will be disgusted by a small mistake, even if you don't want to die. Just like those students with poor grades and bad conduct, they have nothing to do with it. They even hate it when they see it. Give him honey for love and arsenic for hate. Love and evil are just like Bodhisattva and devil. In fact, most of the time, they are only in one thought.