Treat the narrow-minded with magnanimity

When you get along with narrow-minded people, there are bound to be some unpleasant things. If you lack the spirit and haggle with them, you can't get along with them. On the contrary, if you are magnanimous and broad-minded, those unpleasant things will come to nothing. At the same time, it is also an education for the narrow-minded.

How can one be generous? Gorky said: "the higher the goal a person pursues, the faster his talent develops." Talent, of course, includes quantity. The reason why Zhuge Liang didn't care about Zhou Yu's jealousy and persecution was that he had a high vision and always thought about how to unite with Dongwu to defeat Cao Cao and defend Shu. Therefore, he can extricate himself from personal enmity and attach importance to his career and despise small insults. It should be the same with friends. If the other party is narrow-minded and does something wrong to himself, we should start from the overall situation that is conducive to work and friendship. If we can understand, we should understand. If we can tolerate, we should tolerate. We should not haggle over each other for personal reasons.