How to deal with selfish people

Selfish people will put off their jobs for various reasons. Such as "I can't handle it with my own ability", "the work I have on hand is very heavy", "I might as well have done it myself, but I would rather give you the opportunity to increase work experience". When checking out after a meal, you always like to haggle with others, or you like to check the bill item by item. Don't expect him to help you when you are in trouble. Seeing others make mistakes, he will only smile, never remind others, and will not help others. Once someone laughs at you and doesn't know that someone has made a mistake, you have to be careful of that person.

Although they have only themselves in mind and pay special attention to personal gains and losses and interests, they often work selflessly because of their interests. There is no need to have too high expectations for them, and there is no need to hope that they can attach importance to righteousness and affection as friends do. Communication with such people can only be an exchange relationship. How much work to do, how much profit to give, and how good or bad to do, the profit is not the same. The reason why people are generally disgusted with this kind of selfishness, to a large extent, is that people are only measured according to moral standards, taking it as the yardstick of social interaction. This is one-sided, and when we take an interest standard as the yardstick of social interaction, you will not take a "stay away" attitude towards them at any time.

If you look at this kind of person from a different perspective, you will find that they often have the advantage of being careful and careful. If we can apply their advantages to some suitable places in an appropriate way, we can also give full play to their advantages. For example, if such selfish people are allowed to do some financial work, they will often become collective "misers" under strict constraints. Isn't that a good thing?

When dealing with selfishness, we must not drive them into the "cold palace" with one stick. At any time, we must take a distant attitude towards them. Although this kind of person is disgusting and annoying, if it doesn't harm others, it can be regarded as a kind of person who does less harm to others. Moreover, they also have the advantages of extraordinary people, which can bring great social benefits.