Don't be impatient when you ask for help(qiu ren ban shi bu neng xin ji )

As the saying goes, you can't eat hot tofu in a hurry. When a person is in a hurry, shows great impatience and loses patience, he will often lose his mind and smash the things he could have done.

Acute people are different from slow people. What they hate most is that they push things around, drag things around and can't solve them. According to their own consistent style of work, that is to say, do what they say, do it vigorously and happily, do what they can, do what they can, and don't procrastinate. They themselves do so, so they also ask others, including asking them to do things. If you don't get an answer, you'll get angry.

Asking others to do things is different from asking yourself. People always have to consider the causes and consequences and all aspects. Sometimes they have to make some gestures to let you have a look. At this time, you can only wait calmly. If you always ask about the results, you will not only make the other party feel bored, but also feel that you do not trust them and clearly want to help with things. After you interfere, your hope will be gone, which is not worth the loss.

It's not easy to be patient. To be calm is a kind of realm, a kind of bearing and a kind of accomplishment, which is more conducive to the development of things in a good way.

Chinese PinYin : Qiu Ren Ban Shi Bu Neng Xin Ji