Don't offend others easily

As the saying goes: "one more friend, one more road, one more enemy, one more wall." When you do things for others, you should not offend others, no matter whether it is done or not. One should not offend as little as possible.

When doing things, it's easy to push yourself into trouble if you offend others.

During the Warring States period, Yi she, a senior official of the state of Qi, came out after receiving a banquet from the king. At this time, the little official who was the gatekeeper of the palace knelt down and asked, "give me some wine." Yi she rebuked him and knelt down and said, "does a humble gatekeeper also want to drink the king's wine? Go away Yi shot away, then kneel very angry, so the bowl of water splashed on the porch of the sink, water looks like urine.

After dawn, the king of Qi found out and scolded him. He knelt down and said, "who was peeing here last night?" He knelt down and said, "Yi she has stood here." The king of Qi was so angry that he killed Yi she.

Because of being insulted by the minister, a humble gatekeeper even designed to kill the minister, which shows the harm of feuding with others.

The above examples all illustrate the same truth: don't offend others easily, otherwise it will only make trouble for yourself and increase the difficulty of doing things.