Learn a little bit of foolishness

Wang Xifeng in a dream of Red Mansions has taught us a profound lesson that cleverness is mistaken for cleverness. Wang Xifeng is so smart that she is the best among women. I'm afraid many men in the world are inferior to her. She's delicate, she's flexible, she's tough; she's smiling, she's smiling at you on the surface, but she's putting a trap on you in her heart. Jia Rui, a beautiful woman in the picture, is all alone in the sky by her tactics; you Erjie, who has a crush on her husband, is forced to commit suicide by her double dealing; and Li Daitao, her "trick of stealing a beam and changing a post", gives away Mei er's fragile life.

As for Wang Xifeng's endurance, rongning's two prefectures are obedient under her control. The funeral of Qin Keqing is a piece of cake in her hands. She is a good talker. Everyone in Jia's family knows about her second grandmother.

But Wang Xifeng is a shrewd woman. She is so shrewd that she is strong everywhere and can't win everything. She finally offends the eldest lady. In addition, her mother's death has made her backer disappear. Finally, she is "smart but mistaken by smart and killed Qing Qing".

Red scholars lament that such a smart and capable woman's tragic ending lies in that she is a woman after all and has not seen through the philosophy of officialdom. She was hurt by her cleverness and her sharpness.

It's better to be shrewd or muddle headed when dealing with people's life. Everyone has different answers. But Carnegie thinks that it's better to be "muddleheaded". Of course, this muddleheaded is not really muddleheaded. We hope that we can learn some skills to be wise enough to avoid the embarrassment of self defeating.