Focus on the blade

Young people who are not scheming always try to please everyone. In the end, they will only make all the people and themselves superficial friends. A person's energy is limited, to spend these energy on the blade, focus on dealing with the most important person to yourself.

The rule of 28 was originally the wisdom and experience of Jews in business, which means that the key minority is often the main factor determining the overall success or failure. The rule of 28 is not only verified in economy and business, but also can produce convincing hypotheses and shocking conclusions in interpersonal relationships.

In life, 20% of the people give us 80% of the value; 80% of our success is due to mastering 20% of the interpersonal relationship; 20% of your friends play a very important role in your life.

The rule of 28 tells us: let 20% people like you and avoid 80% people who don't have to and can't. Some people don't have to go deep. For those people who are far away from your life circle and meet by chance, such as the homeowner who stops at the inn on the way to travel and the conductor on the way to work, as long as they don't let each other hate themselves, it's enough to chat and spend a happy time when necessary. Don't ask yourself to be a fan.

In short, build deep relationships and close relationships with the 20% of the people who matter in your life.