When you are down, you have to raise yourself

Young people must understand that selling themselves is just like selling things in the market. It is absolutely necessary to raise yourself appropriately. Excessive modesty is actually like dealing with yourself at a low price. On the contrary, it makes people think that you are fake and shoddy.

You may have seen such a situation. When a submissive and pitiful person borrows money from others, it's usually difficult to get it. But it's easy for those with a strong sense to borrow money. He will say that I can't turn around for a while now. I borrow money just to save my life. When the emergency is over, I'll pay you back with interest. He is so cheerful that others can lend him the money without trust. Or he said that the business on hand now is very profitable, deliberately exaggerating the profits of the business, and then the other party is willing to lend him the money. Generally speaking, people's decision whether to lend you money or not is not determined by your difficulty, but by your expectation that you can repay them on time. If you feel like you can't live as soon as you open your mouth, you are likely to fail in borrowing money. Because he felt that if he lent you the money, he would probably throw it into the water and float it.

There is a Chinese saying, "a phoenix on the shelf is not as good as a chicken." it means that once a person is down, he will have no status or dignity in the eyes of others. In fact, when it comes to depression, the more you don't belittle yourself, but raise yourself. If you don't hold any hope for yourself, what else do you expect from others? Only in this way can we get help and support from others.