Arouse the sympathy of the person you ask for

Make use of the compassion of others. Because most people are compassionate, even those with a hard heart are no exception.

In many cases, it is more effective to move others with emotion and arouse their sympathy than to talk about it endlessly. A victim of bullying was very impulsive when he complained to a certain leader, and he spoke wild and dirty words, which made the leader very disgusted. Therefore, the problem remained unsolved. Later, this man was desperate, miserable, and almost wanted to commit suicide, which aroused the sympathy and attention of the leader.

Of course, this does not mean that all complainants have to look pathetic. It means that when the accuser asks for a solution, he should mobilize the sympathy of the listener, so that the listener will first get close to you emotionally and resonate with you. This lays the foundation for solving your problems. People's hearts are full of flesh. As long as you tell the truth about the victims and your inner pain, the processors will be moved.

Compassion can promote the understanding of the victims by those in power, but it does not mean that they will make up their mind to deal with it immediately. Because the processor has to consider many aspects of the situation, sometimes in hesitation, and even hold the attitude that more is better than less, do not want to interfere. At this time, the party concerned has to try to stimulate the sense of responsibility of the handler, so that the handler knows that this is within the scope of his duties, he has the responsibility to handle this matter, and can handle it well.