Ask others to do things, always hope that the other party can do their best. It is the highest and the most ideal realm of asking for help and doing things only when you get the other party's heart. To achieve this effect, the most direct way is to use your true feelings to move each other.
At the beginning, when Liu Bei went to Maolu, he was slighted by Zhuge Liang, because Zhuge Liang wanted to examine whether Liu Bei had the sincerity of recruiting talents and the virtue of being open-minded. When Zhuge Liang was deeply moved by Liu Bei's dedication and humility, the reclusive "Wolong" accepted Liu Bei's invitation and went out to help him revitalize the Han Dynasty.
Therefore, if you want others to help you willingly, the best way is to hold each other's heart with true feelings, so that the other party will work for you wholeheartedly.
Before you ask for help, you should first use your true feelings to get the other person's heart
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