Ask for help and handle affairs skillfully

In the process of talking with people, people tend to pull some family customs to show their kindness. But when asking for help, it's very inappropriate to use your wife and children as the material of your speech. It's easy to feel like a sissy and absent-minded person when we talk about these aspects before we get down to business. And it's not good for business.

When asking for help, the conversation can start with the more serious and elegant topics such as politics and economy, and then involve the more relaxed topics such as literature, art and personal interests. In a word, it is the best conversation to publish one's own views so that each other can have a common idea.

A person who is good at asking for help will never say inappropriate words, because he knows that inappropriate words will often hurt others, even if it is too late to make up later. On the contrary, if you have a steady manner, a gentle attitude, and a fair speech, both sides will naturally have a good conversation, and others will be willing to do things for you.

Therefore, in order to make the other party have a good impression on you, think carefully before you speak, don't think of what to say, so as to cause other people's antipathy, and you don't know why.

Since most people are seeking help from work and life, there are difficulties and crises, such as illness at home, bad marriage, bad career, and so on. At this time, people are often in a period of low mood, asking others for care and help. But remember, don't bring too much depression to others.

Asking for help is always a sad face, which will make people feel bad luck.