A compliment from the heart often has a good effect.
Allen, a famous American management consultant, once trained officers for the US Army Department. She told a story about that experience
Among the officers in the class, one of the captains didn't think much of motivation skills. About a week after the end of the training course, the colonel was in charge of an important briefing, and his boss wanted to praise him for his excellent work. The boss found a piece of yellow drawing paper, folded it into a beautiful card, wrote "great" on the outside, and wrote a few words of appreciation inside. Then he called the colonel and gave him the card.
After reading the card, the Colonel stood there for a moment, then walked out of the boss's office without looking up.
The captain's boss was a little puzzled, thinking: did I do something wrong? So he followed the Colonel quietly. As a result, when he saw the Colonel holding the card, he would show it off to everyone.
Before the end of the story, the Colonel used it better than his boss. He designed and printed a number of special cards for himself to praise others. Before long, he became one of the most popular officers in his unit.
If you can praise three people skillfully every day, you will naturally become a successful person with deep connections.
Praise 3 people every day
Don't make excuses for everything - Bu Yao Shi Shi Zhao Jie Kou
Don't be afraid of being ignored when you ask for help - Qiu Ren Ban Shi Bu Yao Hai Pa Zao Leng Yu
Use the way of oppressive conversation to force him to speak the truth - Yong Ya Po Xing Jiao Tan Fang Shi Bi Ta Shuo Chu Zhen Xin Hua
Don't flatter the rich too much - Yu Fu Ren Da Jiao Dao Bu Neng Guo Yu Chan Mei
Be careful what you say - Xiao Xin Xin Shi Dan Dan De Hua Yu
Application of projection effect - Tou She Xiao Ying De Ying Yong
The gift should be meaningful - Suo Song Li Wu Yao You Yi Yi
What are the etiquette of receiving gifts - Shou Li Li Yi You Na Xie
Follow the principle of "who asks who pays" - Zun Xun Shui Qing Shui Fu Fei Yuan Ze
Refuse to drink by refuting the other party - Yong Bo Dao Dui Fang De Fang Shi Ju Jiu
Don't cause misunderstanding - Bu Yao Yin Qi Dui Fang De Qu Jie
How to prevent part time deception - Ru He Fang Fan Jian Zhi Pian Shu