Handle affairs according to standards and speak properly(ban shi you chi du shuo hua jiang fen cun )

"Wen Zi · Wei Xiang" says: "do not blame people less than, not strong people can not, not bitter people are not good."

Only when we have a standard in handling affairs and speak appropriately can we expand our contacts smoothly.

Specifically, we should grasp the following aspects:

First, don't force others. We should love ourselves and try not to trouble others if we can. If you have to deal with other people's affairs, others will keep away from you, and it will be difficult for you to continue to associate with others.

Second, as a last resort, don't ask several people for help at the same time. Especially when someone has already given you a definite reply, if you do it again, it means you don't trust others.

Third, don't go back on asking for help. If you really need other people's help, you should make it clear in advance. Otherwise, others will feel embarrassed, so who will be willing to help you again?

Chinese PinYin : Ban Shi You Chi Du Shuo Hua Jiang Fen Cun