Make your network work for a long time

In a society that attaches great importance to human etiquette in China, the role of human relations is quite large. It's easy to handle affairs if you have contacts, and it's easy to talk if you have relationships. Therefore, if you want to do something, you should be good at establishing and making use of the interpersonal relationship to find support. In this way, you can do things smoothly, even if it is difficult.

Nowadays, the fast-paced life in a hurry has made people have no time to deal with these contacts, so how to ensure the intercommunication of relations in the case of saving time and effort?

We write down the people who have direct and indirect relationship with our life circle in one book, and those who have no relationship in another. This is like "bury the cards" in playing cards, leaving the useful in our hands and burying the useless.

Or, analyze the people you know, list which people are the most important, which people are more important, and which people are secondary, and sort them according to your own needs. It's just like "managing cards" in playing cards. You should know how many main cards you have, how many vice cards you have, which cards have the most "lethality", which can be used to win points and guarantee the bottom, and which cards can only be used to deal with the situation.

From this, you will naturally understand which relationships need to be maintained and protected, and which only need to maintain general contact and care, so as to decide your communication tactics and arrange your energy and time reasonably.

Furthermore, it can be classified according to the role of "human relationship". For example, some relationships can help you lead the way, others can help you make suggestions, and some can provide you with some information. In the process of asking for help, some things often involve many aspects. It is impossible to get through from only one aspect. It needs support from many aspects. Although the role of "human relationship" is different, it may be very important to oneself. Therefore, we must sort out the functions and roles of various relationships separately, analyze and identify them, and weave them into our own network.

"Social relationship" is like a pair of scissors, which will not rust if it is often ground. If you don't contact for more than half a year, you may have lost a friend. Everyone is a business card of their own. When we have nothing to do, we should often turn it over and allocate resources. Only by constantly checking and repairing the relationship network, adjusting their own network in time with the adjustment of departments and personnel changes, repairing loopholes, adjusting in time, and constantly finding relationships from relationships, can their relationship network be effective for a long time.