When dealing with self righteous people, you should pay attention to the following aspects:
(1) Self examination
Your goal is to be objective and feasible. Don't be sentimental because of the other person's self righteousness. Reconsider their own point of view, self righteous people observe problems in a different way, and stubborn. Is that view reasonable? Is he trying to impose unacceptable standards? However, go back to your own position and consider both pros and cons. When you state your point of view, be clear and specific. You should carefully evaluate your own plan, find out the similarities and differences with the other party, whether your own plan or the other party's plan is more suitable, or can complement each other, so that when dealing with them, you will have a reasonable basis.
(2) Full of confidence
When presenting your own opinions, be as confident as a self righteous colleague. Because their own solutions, in addition to advanced ideas, perfect steps and usually accumulated rich material, but also through rigorous reasoning and demonstration. Therefore, as long as we compete with each other confidently, we will be able to win.
(3) Goodwill reminder
Self righteous colleagues are more confident and stubborn. In the meantime, you should find out to what extent they are affected by their work, and remind them in their work, so that they may accept these kind words. You can say something ingenious: "you are energetic and energetic, and we all appreciate your dedication to your work. But these records remind us where to be cautious, because The situation is unpredictable. "
"We can't make any mistakes in this work. It's related to everyone's interests, especially your interests. If there is a mistake, it will do great harm to your personal future, and this is exactly what I want to mention to you."
"It's impossible for one person to keep every drop of water in his work. When necessary, I'll meet with you and exchange opinions to improve the quality of work. What's wrong with that?"
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